Todd's Abuse Testimonial
As the abuser, I have recalled unlimited times that I said sorry after sorry full of empty promises to my wife. I have to say that majority of the times when I was very abusive were the times I was drinking heavy and by saying that it is still wrong on what I did.
I have a committed plan to alter and resolve this vicious cycle, pertaining to drinking. I attend three classes a week, and contacted Patricia Evans for direction and steps. I am currently reading one of her books called "Controlling People" which has really hit home on several levels for me regarding my issue.
To all you men who I'd going through or just found out that you are the abuser, I suggest that you move out of your current home and seek help today! Let your wife to get help to heal the wounds that we have caused by our abusive words. PERIOD!!!
How Todd Found Out He Was Being Abusive
As I am the abuser in this situation I found out by my wife moving out with our two children. Once that happened - POW! Wake up you idiot and get a grip with your issues if I will have any chance to resolve this. So I have been educating myself about who, what, and how I incorporated this abusive attack on my wife.
Words Todd Chose to Describe His Abusive Experience
Guilt, Shame, Desperation
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